How To Find Happiness?

Thank you for having 4 minutes to explore life – useful lessons. Read and breathe slowly. 

How to find happinessLet’s give an answer in the first sentence. You cannot find something you already have. Period. If you start searching, you will just distance yourself from whatever; you are looking for. Just try to calmy process few important things: 

Find yourself first

The only search you should do, it is to find yourself. Get rid of your fear of failure, get rid of your tensions about succeeding and you will be yourself. Relaxed and conscious.

I would be happy when…

Before we go further, let’s do one exercise. Fill the blanks of next statements.

I would be happy when …..

I would be happy when …..

I would be happy when …..

Can you quickly come up with answers?

If your response is “yes,” then, unfortunately, you are on the wrong path.


Because you look from outside of yourself to find something you already have. It is like the vicious circle of never-ending wishes. Don’t get me wrong, it is good to have goals and make achievements, but they do not cause your happiness.

We bring everything inside of ourselves everywhere we go. If you are unhappy or unsatisfied in this present moment, you will certainly not be more satisfied when you get more money, new car, new husband.  

Law, Universe, whatever you want to call, it does not work in that way. It is just like a joke with a fool. If we motivate a fool, he will not become something else. He will just become a motivated fool. 🙂

But why I am not experiencing what I want?

There’s only one reason why you are not experiencing what you want at this present moment, and it is because you are thinking or focusing on what you do not have. Having a good job or being famous with a great reputation has nothing to do with happiness or success. Nothing. It is irrelevant. Happiness is our natural state. It is the natural state of little kids. Did you ever ask the small child: Why you are happy? It is silly. They are children, you think? Well, it is not like that. It is something YOU ARE from the moment of birth, and you can never lose it. You can bury deep inside, but you cannot lose it.

So, do you want to be happy?

True happiness is uncaused. You do not need to do anything. You just need to be who you are and release the brakes. Let go of your limiting programs, your fears and doubts and BE. Learn from the kids. They are here to remind us who we are. Life is delightful. It is only hard in your perception.

If you take time to unlearn and detach yourself from so many programs and beliefs, you will discover happiness inside yourself. You can start right now. Just decide. Imagine how would be to lose all that weight of “wanting “ and let yourself experience “ being.”  Probably in those moments people around you will see the difference and would ask you Why are you happy?”  What would be your answer? Maybe something like:Why not?”  So, work on yourself, use self-development tools, just be happy.

What can you do next?

1. Be AWARE of the present moment.
2. READ about the power of a smile.
3. JOIN the FREE life- transforming training series to build your dream life
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